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While browsing all of the beautiful jewelry at Nipple Charms, I came across their Clit Clips. Clit clips are non piercing pussy jewelry. I’ve always wanted to get my clitoral hood pierced, but I really just want the healed piercing, not to actually have to go through the piercing and the healing process. A clit clip seemed to be the perfect solution.

Once it had arrived in the mail, I had excitedly opened the package. The clip seemed a little larger than I had expected, and I have to admit I was a little intimidated by it.
Later that evening, I shaved myself completely smooth. I sat down to put it on, but was a little unsure how to go about it. I carefully read the directions from the Nipple Charms website and laid down on my bed, I had a mirror propped up against a chair and pulled it close to me, so I could have a good view of what I was doing. I tried to slide the clip onto my clit and I’m not sure what I did wrong this time, but it somehow pinched my actual clit. The clip is designed to be worn kind of “behind” the clit. I have to admit, it hurt badly. I tried to remove it, but it didn’t want to come off. Moving the clip any was intensely uncomfortable. I grabbed some lube that was one my nightstand put a little dab onto my clit and the clip slid off easily. I was very relieved to have removed it, but I REALLY wanted to wear this thing.
I gave myself a couple minutes and did a quick google search, and learned that an aroused, hard clit works much better. I grabbed my l’insolite vibe, teased my clit for a few seconds and gave it another try. I decided to try adding just a little lube before sliding the clip on this time. With my clit erect and the lube, the clip slid right into place! Once I had the clip in place, I couldn’t feel it very much, unless I moved some and then I would randomly get a lovely sensation.

I’ve worn my Cleopatra clit clip several times already, and have enjoyed it every time. It has done exactly what I hoped for, it feels like I imagine a healed clitoral hood piercing would feel like. The clip hugs my clit and gently stimulates me. The beads that dangle from the end teased and taunted the rest of my vulva. It is a great tease and fun to wear when going out. By the time we got home, I was ready to get at it!
If you have ever fancied the idea of having a pierced clit, or just want to decorate your girly bits, then you should definitely check out the Intimate Jewelry section at Nipple Charms.


HNT Courtesy of Margaret at They Belong to Us
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The Heart’s Desire Teaser is an adorable clitoral vibrator. Although it is designed for the clitoris, you can use it on many other sensitive areas, such as nipples or perineum. The Heart’s Desire Teaser can be just held up to you, or worn in your panties.
As the name suggests, the Heart’s Desire Teaser, is shaped like a heart. It has a clitoral nub and lots of little teasing nubs along the base.
It nestled my clit quite well. The “heart” part of the teaser helped to stabilize and keep it in position when wearing it in your panties.

The bullet in the teaser is removable with a little effort, so if you were to wear out the motor, you could easily replace it with a similar bullet.
The teaser is made of TPR which is phthalates and latex free. It is pretty soft and squishy. The lavender body of the Heart’s Desire Teaser is glittery and features a flower design on the back.
The teaser’s vibrator is a simple bullet with a single button. It has two speeds, which were just strong enough to be a tease. The Heart’s Desire Teaser is waterproof and was a blast to use in the shower. I cannot wait for warmer weather so I can use this in the pool. The motor is this is very quiet, my hubby could not hear it from a few feet away.
Because it is waterproof, cleaning the teaser was easy as pie. Just scrub it down with some antibacterial soap and water.
Pros
Discreetness, powerful yet quiet motor, and I liked the texture of the teaser.
Cons
I would of liked more speeds, and maybe a few vibration patterns
Summary
The Heart’s Desire Teaser made a nice addition to my collection. I was impressed with this toy, the vibrations were stronger than I assumed they would be. This was my first teasing toy, and now I definitely want to try more.
Clitoral vibrator by California Exotic
Material: TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber)
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So yeah it’s been awhile since I’ve done a “Crush of the Week” post, I’ve been such a slacker with it.
I was browsing FleshBot and came across Miss Topanga Fox and thought that I would should share her with you all.



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I am an amateur when it comes to bondage, but nevertheless I know that it really turns me on. I love being a submissive in the bed. I enjoy being bossed around, told what to do, and of course being restrained so that I am helpless to whatever my lover wants to do to me. Bondage and submission is not something that we do on a regular basis, but as a way to make a sex session special. We have switched up roles in the past, but I prefer to be the submissive one.
The first time we experimented with restraining, we used some handkerchiefs, a few tied together to make them longe. Then I bought some cute handcuffs, but we have never had a kit. We have never had a bed that we could set one up with.
When Babeland offered to send me some Under the Bed Restraints, by Sportsheets, I became very excited and readily agreed to review them. These are absolutely perfect for us! You don’t need a fancy headboard, they simply go under the top mattress. The Under the Bed Restraints will fit any size mattress. You can have the straps come up on the sides of the bed, or on the head and foot of the bed. After using the restraints, I simply tucked the cuffs and straps under the mattress, and anyone who comes into the bedroom will be none the wiser. 
The Under the Bed Restraints kit includes four 60 inch restraining straps, one 60 inch connecting strap, and four adjustable cuffs. The restraining straps all have metal rings on the ends to hook the cuffs to. The straps are easily adjustable, they have the sliding adjusters, like on backpacks. The cuffs all have simple hooks on them, to connect to the straps, or you can hook the cuffs together to make hand or ankle cuffs. The way the straps are designed, you can use this on other furniture as well, chairs, sofas, futons, chaises, etc. The options are endless.
The straps are made of nylon webbing and the cuffs are made of nylon webbing as well, but have Velcro closures and lined with neoprene. The cuffs also have a small “Sportsheets” tag sewn onto each one, but it is tasteful and not distracting.

This set is very versitile, and perfect for couple who are just venturing into bondage, or those who just want to spice things up. The cuffs included in this, can be eaily removed, if the person who is being restrained really wants to get out. But because of the rings on the straps, you can use other “not so easy to break out of”handcuffs if you so wished.
The Under the Bed Restraints kit is awesome, and I am so glad that I was given the chance to review them.
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This week I am lusting after something a little different. I am pretty mesmerized by everything that Bad Dragon makes. I don’t personally have some of the fantasies that others who purchase and or lust after their products. But I still appreciate all the loving hard work that this company puts into their products. This week I am currenly lusting after the “Tentacle”
(from the bad dragon site)
“Imagine, if you will, a creature that has soft, forgiving flesh, unlimited dexterity, and an insatiable need to fill the holes of any creature that comes near. Chances are, if the thought of that made you a little randy, the Tentacle is for you!
Not all tentacle beasts are rapists, however. Most just want a hole to fill, and I’m sure there are plenty of volunteers to help satisfy him. You can join in on the fun by ordering a portable tentacle of your own, built in every way to simulate the real thing, from the suckers, right down to the spade-tip head that parts you gently, giving him access to your most sensitive of parts.”



      
Nutella Contest!
This started out as a joke, I told my hubby “I’m going to host a contest on Twitter giving away a jar of Nutella” Then I thought, well why not have this contest?! So I posted a tweet saying I was going to have the contest. A few moments later, Matt from www.myticklespot.com said he would sponsor this contest! He offered to provide a large jar of Nutella!
For the Nutella virgins , (got this from the Nutella webite)
Nutella (pronounced “new-tell-uh”) is a tasty unique spread made from the combination of roasted hazelnuts, skim milk and a hint of cocoa. Nutella® has no artificial colors or preservatives. It can be used on a wide variety of breads. For more information on the rich history of Nutella®, click here.
Nutella has a tasty unique creamy chocolaty taste. Mixed in that taste is a roasted nut flavor that will delight your taste buds as you enjoy each mouthful.
In my words “Nutella is a jar full of amazing awesomeness”
If you win here are some suggestions to what to do with it,
- Grab the jar and a spoon and go to town!
- Spread it on some bread, graham crackers, or even cupcakes
- Perhaps use it like thick edible paint (just keep it away from the vajayjay, way too much sugar in this)
- Save the winning jar, then buy a lot more and take a bath in it. lol (Like this)
- Make some yummy Grilled Banana and Nutella Paninis
- Go crazy!
Now that you know what it is, and what you can do with it, how do you win some??
The winner of this tasty contest will have the most twitter tweets with the tag #ticklemynutella
Also, each contest participant will need to tweet this at LEAST once. (or something pretty similar)
@DaniDarlingBlog & @MyTickleSpot are giving away the amazingness that is Nutella Go here /bit.ly/ab5D2W to enter and win! #ticklemynutella
The contest will end and the winner announced Monday, March 8th at 11pm est.
Good Luck and thanks for participating!
 
I was given the opportunity to review the cuteness that is the Petite Pink Massager by Natural Contours from MyTickleSpot.com
The Petite is made of hard plastic, and features a simple sliding control with 3 speeds. The controls on this are different than I am used to, the first notch from “off” is High, then Medium and Low. It works though, because I generally start on low and work my way to high, then to off when I am finished.
I have not being able to climax using only the Petite . The vibrations need to be just slightly more powerful to get me off. I don’t believe that I have a “clit-o-steel” so unless you are pretty sensitive, you may not be able to get off using only the Petite . I still really enjoy using my Petite . Toys do not have to be “finishers” to be enjoyable. I thoroughly enjoy a nice teasing.

The Petite is about 4 inches long and 2 1/2 inches wide. It is curved, which makes it easy to hold onto your clit, you can nestle it onto the folds of your vagina and let the vibrations tease you. The curved shape of the contour also makes it ideal to use during sex, as it can hit your clit, yet not get in the way. The Petite is pretty quiet, you can hear it from a few feet away, but not though a wall or door. The hard plastic that the Petite is made of is compatible with pretty much lubricant. I found that adding a small dab of lubricant made the Petite glide easier and felt very nice.
The only con I had, was when I first opened the package, it had a odd odor, but that faded after a few days.
Overall, I liked the Petite . I liked the shape and design, the velvety finish. I also love how discreet it is, you could easily hide it in a cell phone case or pocket if you wished. The simple packaging also included 2AA batteries, which in my opinion is always awesome.
  
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